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This week's episode of YOUR ANXIETY TOOLKIT is just for you if you struggle with the fear that things need to be perfect, or that bad thing will happen if you don't do them in the "right way". Does that describe you, at all?
I am constantly talking with my clients about radical self-acceptance. Radical Self Acceptance is Accepting yourself as you are and just being you. But, often clients will look at me with a blank face and ask, "but how?"
In this episode, I share with you my ALL TIME favorite tool to manage perfectionism and vulnerability avoidance. It is in no way evidence-based or a clinical tool, but it is mine and I LOVE IT!
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The Tool is called, Whack it Together!!!!!! (Yes, I purposely put all of those...
Ep. 38: We are the Lucky Ones (Important Lessons Learned by Stuart Ralph)
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I can't wait to tell you about the most recent Podcast episode of Your Anxiety Toolkit!
When it comes to interviewing people for Your Anxiety Toolkit podcast, I ADORE bringing on people I admire, who think outside the box and who are are leaders in our field of Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Depression and Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRB'S), Stuart Ralph definitely checks off ALL these criteria.
In this podcast episode of Your Anxiety Toolkit, I asked Stuart to share with us some of what he has learned interviewing some of the most influential and inspiring psychotherapists and...
So, recently I was speaking with a client about his severe anxiety and he attributed his anxiety to all the pressures in his life. I asked, where is the pressure coming from? Is it Societal Expectations? Is it from teachers? Bosses? Parents? Loved ones?
I am wondering if you immediately wondered if it was from him? You guessed right! We often are the ones who put the most pressure on ourselves. When we do this, it leads to increased anxiety and increased stress.
The answer is in FIVE simple words.
I GIVE MYSELF PERMISSION TO.....
Before we move on, let's first address one thing. Even if the pressure is coming from an external source (boss, school, parents etc), we need to learn the skill of giving ourselves permission to drop the pressure. Drop the expectations Undo all the rules we place on ourselves to be “perfect”, pure, always good, always kind, always enough. Always at peak...
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Believe it or not, CBTschool.com was an idea that came from moments of deep frustration. Each year, at conferences and via email and social media, I hear from hundreds of people with a similar story. They had spent years suffering from OCD, Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors, anxiety, depression, and shame, and had behaviors that they couldn't make sense of.
Statistics show that for someone with OCD, it can take up to 7 years to be correctly diagnosed and can take 14-17 years to find the correct treatment.
HOW IS THIS STILL POSSIBLE? Here are the problems.